Self-control is admired by society. Yet, your success in regulating emotions, getting the work done, and being praised for being detail-oriented, planful, motivated, etc., hasn't translated to intimate relationships or the bedroom.
You've heard that being naughty gets you in trouble and that following the rules helps you succeed, so you maximize self-control. Too much self-control, though, undermines vulnerability in close relationships and sexuality. You now want a sex life that's meaningful and fulfilling. What do you do?
Can self-control be excessive? Absolutely!
The Overcontrolled Temperament
Too much self-control, also known as the Overcontrolled Temperament, is characterized by the following core traits:
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